Here’s a solid list of online dating tips to help you stand out, stay safe, and make meaningful connections—no matter which app you’re using:
Profile Tips
1. Use clear, recent photos.
Choose 3–5 good shots: one smiling face, one full body, one doing something you love. Avoid too many selfies or filters.
2. Write a bio with personality.
Show, don’t tell. Instead of “I’m funny,” try: “I’ll make you laugh so hard you snort your coffee.” Be authentic, not generic.
3. Answer prompts thoughtfully.
On apps like Hinge or OkCupid, use prompts to show what matters to you. Be a little witty or specific—it sparks better convos.
Messaging Tips
4. Start with something personal.
Mention something from their profile: “You’re into jazz—ever been to a live show lately?” It shows you’re paying attention.
5. Don’t be afraid to make the first move.
Confidence is attractive. You don’t have to be perfect—just be curious and respectful.
6. Ask open-ended questions.
Keep the convo flowing with questions like, “What’s your ideal weekend?” instead of “How are you?”